Luckly she is under the belief boy's are to complicated and friend's are more fun. I have ten year old and she know's firmly when boyfriend's appear i ll cut his ball's off if they have sex and she will be sent to boarding and her dad would lose the plot. I agree with the other parent's when they have sex they will continue it is peer pressure to fit in and also she won't to lose her first real boyfriend. I personally would try and sort out the best contraception for her and tell his parents BUT i would also never leave them alone in the house, his or yours, because noboby wants there child to be having underage sex, that way if they really want to do it then they will have to find some where else. I agree with pp, by banning them seeing each other or by trying to stop them from having sex will only make it worse. 3 long weeks later and she got her period but by this time they had split up. She cried and begged me not to but if it was the other way round i would of wanted to know.Ĭutting it short, she got the morning after pill but they had also had unprotected sex 5 days before so there was still a chance she could of been pregnant. The first thing i did was sat them both down and told them all the reasons why they shouldn't be doing it and then said i had to tell her mum because if she was going to take the morning after pill, her mum had to take her to the doctors. I only found out because they didn't use any protection and he was worried so he told me. I was in this situation in the summer with my son who was 14 and his girlfriend who was 14 they had been together 18 mths. We are both shocked and overwhelmed by the situation and are trying to treat and talk to our daughter in a non confrontational manner but finding it difficult to understand what has occurred.Īny thoughts or help would be most appreciated. We have told her that for the relationship to continue we must be confident that they will not have sex given their age and asked that we meet and talk to the boyfriends parents (who we don't know). We have not 'thrown the book at her' (yet) but have explained the consequences of her behaviour in terms of her future health and well being but feel she is not really listening, we have for the last 24 hours effectively cut her communications to give her chance to reflect, this was interrupted by a visit from the boyfriend - we allowed her to speak to him on the phone for a couple of minutes to tell him the circumstances. We have found out that my 13yo daughter has had sex with her 15yo boyfriend, as a couple we have spoken directly to her and after an initial denial under the weight of evidence she conceded it had happened - the boyfriend is her first serious relationship and she has being seeing him for two months.
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